It’s the thought that counts

“What we are today comes from our thoughts of yesterday, and our present thoughts build our life of tomorrow: Our life is the creation of our mind.” – Buddha

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Creating the life we want is difficult. There is always some obstacle in our way: work commitments, finances, time pressures, how our decisions impact others.

But we know they are just excuses to stop us from moving forward. How crazy is it that we knowingly deny ourselves the life we deserve.

There’s a great saying by Alexander Graham Bell:

“Sometimes we stare so long at a door that is closing that we see too late the one that is open.” 

It’s true most of us dwell more on the reasons why we can’t do something instead of finding a solution to how we can. In effect, we miss opportunities.

Our negative thoughts hold us back.

Not everyone is a risk taker, for example a neighbour put it best. “I want to, but I just don’t have the guts to sell up and take off”.

He’s faced his reason why he can’t. He doesn’t have the resolve.

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Courtesy of PsychologyToday

But that’s where positive thoughts can turn a situation around. When the chatter in our head overrides reason, we need to stop, take stock and write down all the pros and cons.

Because there is a way to get through a crisis, to achieve change, and create the life we want. We just need to methodically work through the things on our list that have stopped us to this point.

Another way to reprogram (or organise) our thoughts is adopting “creative visualisation” techniques. It works like this – visualise your goal as already accomplished. That is, see yourself already there!

When you do that you consciously as well as unconsciously start making changes to bring about change. Your thoughts, habits and actions help you attract the thing(s) you want.

If your goals aren’t so lofty and you seek peace of mind for more simple things in life, then you already have those tools at hand.

PositiveThoughts

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HealthStorylines’ Positive Thoughts tool is powerful. You write down the thoughts you felt negatively about in one box, and in the next you’re challenged to come up with a brighter way of thinking about the experience.

It’s a great way to track and challenge negative thoughts.To get the best result, track your thoughts for a week. Just click on “add tools” and type in “Positive Thoughts” in the search results field to bring it up.

Another great tool to focus the mind is to watch the Mindfulness Learning video. Just select “add tools” and search for it.

MindfulnessLearning

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In no time you will be on a positive journey to track your thoughts. Click on this link to get started.

The author has used Health Storylines since being diagnosed with neuroendocrine tumours in 2016. After more than a year documenting her health via the app, she has become a Self-Care Ambassador as part of a pilot to encourage others to track their health.